Malafama Dos - One Year Later

The cult of one.

This is like going into a fight that the other person makes up the rules… and immediately breaks them. Those rules were meant only for you… and to have the perception that the other will follow them… you can match them and break the the same rules. Or fight back in a way to balance the situation.

and that’s that… someone declaring commitments, transparency, loyalty… has not intention of fulfilling those offers. They just want you to believe it… and in a “long way around” philosophy… you will follow suit.

Boundaries are set. Someone steps over them… and what do we do? Extend the boundaries. Fight back? Communicate? Walk away? There are types that push the envelope and step over boundaries to test your tolerances… and those, without empathy, that will continuously step over boundaries… for many different conscious and unconscious reasons… and both types… are navigating as emotional children. And you shouldn’t waste a second more of your time unless you’re into drama.

human beings are lying sacks of shit. All of them. Including me. It’s the nature of our being. We should all be in charge of our own integrity. We shouldn’t go out of our way to hurt others… and practice compassion. The best we can.

anyone screaming at your face that the are honest, loyal, monogamist, exclusive, transparent… is lying to themselves and to your fat face. If you promise something… fulfill it… or shut up. And if you offer nothing… then there is nothing to fulfill. And we owe no one anything.

Does that sound cold? The world is cold… as far as human relations… and you can’t trust anyone… if you can’t trust yourself. Do you trust yourself? Would you tell others that you trust yourself? Would you scream into someone’s face, “I trust myself! So… you have to trust me!”